Our Ceremony

The Anand Karaj

Blissful Union

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Originally composed by the fourth Guru, Sri Guru Ramdas Ji, the Anand Karaj is much more than just a marriage ceremony — it is the union of two souls.

As prescribed by Sri Guru Amar Das Ji:

"They are not said to be husband and wife who merely sit together. Rather they alone are called husband and wife, who have one soul in two bodies."
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Gurudwara Etiquette

  • Cover your head — bandanas are provided for men and scarves for women at the entrance, or feel free to bring your own.

    In Sikhi, covering the head is an act of humility and reverence before Waheguru (God). Entering the Gurudwara Sahib with a covered head acknowledges His presence and sovereignty in this sacred space.

  • Remove your shoes in the designated shoe room near the entrance before entering the Gurudwara Sahib.

    Removing shoes is a gesture of surrender of ego and a recognition that we are stepping onto holy ground. It also reflects the foundational Sikh principle of equality — all who enter stand on the same level before Waheguru.

  • Shoulders covered — wear whatever feels celebratory and comfortable, just ensure your shoulders are covered inside the Gurudwara.

    Modest dress in the Gurudwara reflects inward focus and spiritual reverence. Covering the shoulders honors the sanctity of the space and allows the congregation to remain centered on prayer and the presence of Waheguru.

10:30 am — 11:30 am

Baraat & Breakfast

All guests arrive together, loved ones are united, and everyone is welcomed with warmth.

1

The Joyful Arrival

Baraat

All guests are invited to be part of the Baraat — a joyful, celebratory procession with dhol (drums), music, and dancing as Prabh and everyone arrives together at the Gurudwara Sahib. This is a festive, high-energy moment that sets the tone for the entire day. Come ready to dance!

2

Opening Prayer

Ardaas

Once gathered outside the Gurudwara Sahib, the Granthi (officiator) leads the Ardaas — a formal prayer and address to Waheguru (God). The Ardaas gives thanks, asks for blessings for the day, and invites the presence of the Divine into the ceremony.

3

Coming Together

Milni

In the Milni, all guests come together as Prabh and Steph's loved ones are formally welcomed and introduced. Garlands, gifts, and warm embraces are exchanged — a beautiful and often emotional moment as everyone officially comes together as one.

4

Breakfast

Tea & Refreshments

A traditional Punjabi breakfast is served to welcome all guests. Expect warm chai, samosas, and homemade Punjabi snacks. This is a wonderful time to mingle with loved ones and settle in before the ceremony begins.

11:30 am — 2:00 pm

Anand Karaj Ceremony

We enter the Darbar Sahib — the prayer hall — and the sacred ceremony begins.

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Devotional Hymns

Shabad Kirtan

As the Sangat (congregation) enters the Darbar Sahib (prayer hall), Shabad Kirtan — devotional hymns from Sri Guru Granth Sahib Ji — is sung live by the Raagi Jatha (religious musicians). The music fills the hall and creates a peaceful, spiritual atmosphere as everyone takes their place.

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Supplication to Commence

Ardaas

Prabh, followed by Steph, take their place seated before Sri Guru Granth Sahib Ji (the Holy Scripture). Along with their loved ones, the couple stand to partake in the Ardaas — marking the consent and acceptance of all present to commence the ceremony. This is the formal beginning of the Anand Karaj.

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Giving Away the Bride

Palle Di Rasam

In this deeply moving moment, a loved one from Steph's family comes forward and places the end of the palla (a long scarf), worn on Prabh's shoulder, into Steph's hands. In doing so, they formally entrust Steph to her new life with Prabh — symbolizing the sacred bond of love and trust as their journey together begins.

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The Marriage Nuptial

Laavan — The Four Rounds

During the four Laavan, the couple circumambulate (walk around) Sri Guru Granth Sahib Ji (the Holy Scripture), with each round accompanied by the singing of a corresponding Shabad. Each round carries a distinct spiritual meaning:

First Laar

The couple are instructed to follow the path of Dharam — righteousness, religious practice, and moral duty to God.

Second Laar

The couple is urged to seek the path of the True Guru, by freeing the mind of fear, removing ego, and filling the mind with soulful spiritual songs of joy.

Third Laar

The couple is encouraged to fulfill their destinies by contemplating the greatness of God. The soul is said to be filled with divinity and love, by the good fortune of God.

Fourth Laar

Peace is attained having found union with God. Prabh and Steph are now blessed with the grace of God to begin their new lives together.

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"Anand bhaio meri maaye, Satguru mai paaia."

I am in bliss, O mother, for I have found my True Guru.

— Anand Sahib · Sri Guru Granth Sahib Ji

From 2:15 pm

Lunch

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Langar — The Community Meal

Following the ceremony, lunch will be served in the outer courtyard from 2:15 pm onwards. Come together to share a warm meal, laughter, and stories as we celebrate as one big family.

All food is freshly prepared and vegetarian — a beloved Gurudwara tradition that welcomes everyone equally, regardless of background or faith.